|Beautiful breastfeeding art by Kate Hansen|
I've never once seen a woman fling a breast, which frankly sounds quite painful. If you know where I can witness this, please let me know; I've never quite understood the logistics of it. The truth if the matter is, most people don't notice a mother nursing her child. When a child shows signs of wanting to nurse, a mother matter of factly lifts or lowers her shirt enough to allow the child to latch on. They nurse and go on about their business. No fanfare precedes the event. There are no requests for cheers or hurrahs. The mother is merely attending to her child's needs, just as she would hug the child or hand the child food.
While negative experiences sadly occur, in the thousands of times I've nursed in public, the number of negative comments are comparatively small. I've nursed in a laundromat full of college guys, out hiking, in stores while pushing a cart, while helping my older children with crafts at a children's museum, next to a strange man on an airplane (who was kind enough to offer to pull my tray down for my water), at concerts, parks, libraries, and more. Most of the time, no one says a word.
So while we do need to normalize breastfeeding and nursing in public, new mothers shouldn't feel frightened to do so. Chances are, no one will even notice. If they do, it's very likely they won't say a thing. And if they do, take confidence in the fact that you are doing the best for your child and stay firm in your rights.
We are happy to feature today's guest post from Mandy. Mandy is an unschooling mom of 4 and advocate of consensual living. You can normally find her at Living Peacefully with Children.