What is the law in your state?

The states in the US vary widely in the implementation of laws that protect a breastfeeding mother and baby...

Breastfeeding gift ideas for an expecting mom

A reader asks: I am attending a baby shower for a friend. I'd like to get her something that will help make her breastfeeding experience more comfortable. What should I buy?

The sole requirement for NIP

During my pregnancy with my youngest son, one of the parts of motherhood that I looked most forward to was nursing. ...

International and Religious views of NIP

Think nursing in public is only a concern in the United States? If so, is it our religious roots that has instilled our country's prudish (and misguided) desire for "discretion"?

Where are our breastfeeding role models?

I saw a woman breastfeeding her three month old son while walking around the busy farmer's market yesterday morning...

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Monday, November 22, 2010

CarNIP Creme de la Creme, Part 7

We are happy to share some of the wonderful pieces that were submitted during the Carnival of Nursing in Public as "Crème de la Crème" posts. I'll be posting a few at a time so you can look at them at your leisure. If you feel so moved, please click over, read the whole post, and leave a comment in support of the writers who participated in the Carnival.

  • Lactation Narration, Nursing at Sharper Image Have you ever been harassed about nursing in public? If so, you’re not alone. Alicia at Lactation Narration shares her harassment story and how it turned her into a breastfeeding activist.  
I have researched the issue and talked to other mothers who have had similar experiences, and I stand up for them in hopes that it will not have to happen to more women. I think that most women probably don’t even know that there is a law that protects them, and many would not stand up for themselves even if they knew about it.
Read more from Lactation Narration.
  • PhD in Parenting, Covering Up Is A Feminist Issue: Few breastfeeding mothers are strangers to the “covered/discreet” discussion. Annie at PhD in Parenting would like to point out that shrouding women has been a tool for oppression throughout history. This article takes you on a pictorial path ranging from shrouded to nude, reminding us that it is the woman’s right to decide how covered – or uncovered – she chooses to be. 
Any time a woman is told to cover up or told to undress, I see that as an attack on her person. Telling women to cover up and telling women to strip down are frequently used tactics for oppressing women. There are both practical and philosophical reasons why no one other than the woman herself should decide how covered or uncovered to be.
Read more from PhD in Parenting.
  • The Connected Mom, I've Got Two Boobs . . . One . . . Two: America has a strange relationship with boobs. We love them, so long as there is not a baby attached. Could this be because of our conservative Protestant heritage? Is this a result of the beliefs on which our nation was founded? Jennifer, The Connected Mom tackles this question and more.
The teacher from the school actually says "she doesn't have the right to impose her agenda on other people's children." Ok, I hate to break it to everyone but 99.9% of the time, breastfeeding moms are just trying to feed their child.
Read more from The Connected Mom.

Friday, October 29, 2010

CarNIP Creme de la Creme, Part 6

We are happy to share some of the wonderful pieces that were submitted during the Carnival of Nursing in Public as "Crème de la Crème" posts. I'll be posting a few at a time so you can look at them at your leisure. If you feel so moved, please click over, read the whole post, and leave a comment in support of the writers who participated in the Carnival.

  • Life's a Salad Bar, Fighting the Good FightIf breastfeeding weren’t taboo enough, try breastfeeding a toddler. Anna establishes that society puts all sorts of constraints and ideals on how we raise our children, especially on how long we nurse. Her thought places this decision squarely between mother and child, even if it means following your beliefs quietly. 
So how do we fight the good fight? How do we deal with all of the pressure to wean, the disgust by some who want to compare long term nursing to child abuse or scold us for "spoiling" our children? Quite simply? We just do. As moms we are going to be put in tough places, we're going to be faced with opinions on everything from what we let our children eat to what time we let them stay up until to what we let them watch on TV.
Read more from Life's a Salad Bar.

  • Hobo Mama, Breastfeeding Education: In our modern world, the most common forms of breastfeeding education come from books, videos, midwives, and even plastic dolls. Lauren illustrates one unfortunate way that “taboos” are also reinforced - by not taking simple opportunities to educate people. We easily fear/condemn that which we do not understand. For her, the simple act of nursing in public is one lesson she passes on. 
I think that back when breastfeeding was the only way to feed babies that little kids and then parents must have learned to breastfeed the way people learn to wash themselves or eat solid food or put on clothes -- there is no overt education. The events just happen, so often and so naturally, that no one can help but see, and eventually do. It would have been natural and seamless and not a big deal in the least.
Read more from Hobo Mama.

  • Code Name: Mama, Mama Milk Dance!: Dionna discusses both why toddler nursing is normal, as well as some of the health benefits of breastfeeding toddlers.
The argument that breastfeeding should be discontinued after it is “more comfort than nutrition” is similarly misguided. Aside from the established health benefits of nursing a toddler, it makes no sense to take away a food source just because it does not meet every nutritional need.
Read more from Code Name: Mama.

Monday, October 4, 2010

CarNIP Creme de la Creme, Part 5

We are happy to share some of the wonderful pieces that were submitted during the Carnival of Nursing in Public as "Crème de la Crème" posts. I'll be posting a few at a time so you can look at them at your leisure. If you feel so moved, please click over, read the whole post, and leave a comment in support of the writers who participated in the Carnival.



  • Breastfeeding Moms Unite!, What is Beautiful: Melodie discusses the controversial breast - it has a dual purpose. Have we as a society forgotten that?

And now society can’t tell the difference between the non-sexual breasts for feeding a baby and the sexual breast used to titillate men. Either way women lose. You’re a trollop if you want to feel pretty and dress sexy and you’re repugnant if you nurse your baby in public and someone sees a little bit of flesh.
Read more from Breastfeeding Moms Unite!


  • Peaceful Parenting, Breastfeeding Baby Jesus: JD Fritz, M.D. Ph.D. shares long lost images of a breastfeeding Jesus from the Birth and Babies library.  

Images of Mary breastfeeding Jesus were once ubiquitous in churches around the world. But eventually in North America, as the artificial feeding of babies became more popular, and the plastic bottle replaced the breast, our nipplephobia got the best of us and these sacred images all but disappeared from churches and art galleries in North America.
Read more from Peaceful Parenting.



I would not, could not, when in Spain.
I would not, could not on a plane.
I will not do it at the mall.
I will not do it on a hill.
I will not do it here or there.
I will not do it anywhere.
I do not like to nurse in public.
I do not like it, friend of mine.


Read more from PhD in Parenting.

Monday, September 27, 2010

CarNIP Creme de la Creme, Part 4

We are happy to share some of the wonderful pieces that were submitted during the Carnival of Nursing in Public as "Crème de la Crème" posts. I'll be posting a few at a time so you can look at them at your leisure. If you feel so moved, please click over, read the whole post, and leave a comment in support of the writers who participated in the Carnival.


  • Life's a Salad Bar, Pump and Go: Ever heard that a breastfeeding mother should pump her milk to feed her baby in public? Anna at Life's a Salad Bar will arm you with all the information needed to explain why it is easier said than done.

Don’t feel pressured into doing something that you don’t want to, and if you decide you still would rather pump that’s fine too. Just go into in knowing the facts and be comfortable with your choice, because that person who may have an issue with you nursing your baby isn’t the one who has to live with that choice, you are.
Read more from Life's a Salad Bar.


  • Authentic Parenting, Breastfeeding Courtesy: Mamapoekie writes a letter to the public to give tips on what does (and does not) constitute courtesy to breastfeeding mothers.

Every nursing mother does exactly what she feels comfortable with so there is no need to meddle whatsoever. Most certainly she has considered the spot where she is sitting or the amount of 'exposure' she is portraying and is comfortable with it. She is not a sad little creature in need of chivalry or rescuing.
Read more from Authentic Parenting.



  • Her Bad Mother, I’ve Looked at Boobs from Both Sides Now: During the backlash of Kim Kardishians tweets bashing nursing in public, Catherine from Her Bad Mother reminds us that while we should stand up for breastfeeding, it's important to not bash another womans right to expose her breasts, albeit differently. Boobs are gloriously multifunctional! 

I’ll be the first to say that I think that nursing babies is more important, more necessary, more deserving of public support than is exposing one’s breastal units to sunlight and the public gaze, but I don’t know that I want my right to nurse in public to come at the cost of Kim Kardashian’s, or any woman’s, right to feel comfortable dressing however she likes and to not face censure for doing whatever it is that she does that causes us to shout YO HYPOCRITE when she expresses discomfort with the exposed nursing boob.
Read more from Her Bad Mother.

Wednesday, September 15, 2010

CarNIP Creme de la Creme, Part 3

We are happy to share some of the wonderful pieces that were submitted during the Carnival of Nursing in Public as "Crème de la Crème" posts. I'll be posting a few at a time so you can look at them at your leisure. If you feel so moved, please click over, read the whole post, and leave a comment in support of the writers who participated in the Carnival.
  • Hobo Mama, Nursing in Public: The only times Lauren from Hobo Mama ever felt shame when nursing her (then) new baby was when she tried to cover up. Her advice to modest moms is to wear a nursing/maternity tank top if it makes you feel better, and NIP proudly.
The only times I've felt shame and embarrassment when breastfeeding are when I've tried to cover it up. When I just do it like it's the most natural thing in the world, I'm not embarrassed, and I think I keep most other people from feeling embarrassed as well. I mean, I can't control their own emotions and issues, but I hope I at least project the idea that they don't need to be embarrassed for my sake.
Read more from Hobo Mama.
  • PhD in Parenting, What Gives You the Right?: Why should breastfeeding mothers have to cater to the modesty requirements of the general public? Why should we have to take others' feelings into considerations over our own child's needs? Annie at PhD in Parenting's answer is: we don't.


You don’t want your child to see me feeding my child. Why is that my problem? Why should I stay home while you go to the restaurant? Why should your kids eat at the table, while my kid eats in the bathroom? Why should my child have to have a blanket over her head instead of you putting a blanket over your child’s head?
Read more from PhD in Parenting.

I think we live in a culture that allows us to express ourselves about subjects which are none of our business. And that gives many the feeling that their thoughts should be shared simply because they have permission to express them. That isn’t the case. . . .
It’s not just about what you think. It’s about the impact of your comment. Does it help? Does it bring comfort and support? Does it bring peace? Does it promote love? Are you bringing forward a part of you- authentically sharing with another with no expectation, just to be helpful?
Or are you being critical? Skeptical? Are you expecting others to conform to your standards? Is the comment divisive? Does it purposely breed controversy? Is it ignorant or hurtful?
It matters.
Read more from Intentional Birth.

Wednesday, September 1, 2010

CarNIP Creme de la Creme, Part 2

We are happy to share some of the wonderful pieces that were submitted during the Carnival of Nursing in Public as "Crème de la Crème" posts. I'll be posting a few at a time so you can look at them at your leisure. If you feel so moved, please click over, read the whole post, and leave a comment in support of the writers who participated in the Carnival.



  • Lucy & Ethel Have a Toddler, Nursing in Public (Boobs) Out and Proud: If you've ever nursed in public - not only because your child is hungry, but because you are proud to be a breastfeeding mother and want to do your part to make it visible and normal - you will identify with this piece. 


It's always been my attitude that if someone is freaked out by seeing a baby breastfeeding, or thinks it's weird or inappropriate or whatever it is that people have a problem with, it's their issue to get over, and it's not the mother's responsibility to accommodate them.


I think that the discomfort that some people have about breastfeeding in public stems primarily from the fact that it's not something you see every day - which is one of the reasons that I do it.
Of course, it's mostly because my baby is hungry and, well, here we are, but once we're in that situation, my decision to just get on with it wherever we are is very much influenced by my belief that I should nurse her in public.

Read more from Lucy and Ethel Have a Toddler.

  • Momma in Progress, Feeding Baby: Before she felt comfortable nursing in public, this mama carried a bottle of expressed milk with her. Always. Thankfully, that didn't last very long. She writes:

Breastfeeding at that point was an extremely elaborate affair involving complete removal of shirts, propping of pillows, numerous disastrous latch-on attempts, and occasionally some small amount of milk actually making it into the baby. Eventually I realized we needed to get past this level of complexity with every feeding if we were ever going to have a life. Thankfully, we did . . . possibly due to some divine intervention, because honestly I still felt utterly clueless and best I could tell she did, too. Once we reached the point when nursing was no longer An Event but simply How Baby Ate, we were ready to take our show on the road.
Read more from Momma in Progress.
One of Those Women, As Real As It Gets: A mother laments her son's distress when he could not receive comfort from her breast, because society is uncomfortable with the public nursing of a toddler.
Because my body, and what I do with it as a mother, is socially controlled. As a woman, my mothering, and my body, is controlled by the gaze of others. I didn't even feel I could ask to withdraw to a private space, as I didn't want the entire "she's a freak" thing to enter into my, and my son's, relationship at his wonderful Nursery. I was too afraid. Too scared.
Read more from One of Those Women.

Friday, August 13, 2010

CarNIP Creme de la Creme, Part 1

We haven't yet decided how we're going to permanently feature breastfeeding-related posts that have been previously published on others sites, but I do want to start sharing some of the wonderful pieces that were submitted during the Carnival of Nursing in Public as "Crème de la Crème" posts. I'll be posting a few at a time so you can look at them at your leisure. If you feel so moved, please click over, read the whole post, and leave a comment in support of the writers who participated in the Carnival.


  • BethStedman.com, Nursing in Public: A Little Story: Beth from bethstedman.com relates a story about her first experience traveling with her then 7 month old child. Sadly, she was asked to cover up by an airline attendant, and was later offered a "family restroom" to nurse in by someone in the airport. Beth writes: 

Personally I think it does feel like there is something wrong in our society when a momma feels uncomfortable and ashamed for naturally, freely and openly feeding her baby. I can see how if you had enough experiences like my little story and you didn’t have support from family and friends around you it would be easy to choose not to breastfeed at all or to stop earlier then you had originally planned. I can understand why “according to the Centers for Disease Control and Prevention, approximately 70 percent of mothers start breastfeeding immediately after birth, but less than 20 percent of those moms are breastfeeding exclusively six months later.”
The choice to nurse or not to nurse is each mother’s personal decision, but wouldn’t it be great if we lived in a society where women really could freely make that decision. Where if they wanted to nurse they wouldn’t be made to feel uncomfortable for openly feeding their baby whenever they needed to and where ever was most comfortable for them.
Read more about Beth's story.


  • A Beatnik’s Beat on Life, Courage: Erin shares a story about how a friend's confidence in nursing her own child in public helped Erin feel comfortable to do the same. Erin says:

Let me tell you something: the way she did this was probably the coolest thing I have seen in a long time. For me, when I feed Kairi in front of people, I feel like I should warn them first. I know that I shouldn't have to, that people SHOULDN'T be uncomfortable with a nursing child but the sad fact is that people just aren't used to it. But for her, it was a no questions asked, just do it kind of thing, like it was the most normal thing to possibly do. (AS IT SHOULD BE!!!)
Read more about Erin's story.


  • Mama Cum Laude, No Need to Hide: In a misguided attempt to make Lindsey "comfortable" while breastfeeding, a shopkeeper gave her a damp dishtowel to cover her nursling. Thankfully, that experience is a rarity for Lindsey and many other breastfeeding mothers. Lindsey explains:

When I walk out the door in the morning, I don't expect neighbors or passers by to stop and gawk at me-- an occasional friendly smile or a "good morning" is much more likely. This is generally the case when I am out in public with my children. I don't expect to be confronted about nursing. I go about my day. I mother my babies.
Read more from Lindsey.

Stay tuned for more Crème de la Crème posts!

Sunday, July 4, 2010

Help NursingFreedom.org Promote the Carnival of Nursing in Public

Help us get the word out! We have several ways you can promote the Carnival and Nursing in Public;
  1. Join our Facebook Page and suggest the page to your friends.
  2. 36716_136549386364247_135039689848550_297885_5515535_n.jpgDuring the week of the Carnival change your Facebook Profile Pic or Page Pic to the "I Nurse in Public" button. The button is available here for download: http://www.flickr.com/photos/paigestannard/4761183827/sizes/o/in/photostream/ and then you can upload it to your FB profile.
  3. Follow us on Twitter: @nursingfreedom
  4. RT your fellow-bloggers' NIP tweets using the #CarNIP tag. Adding #breastfeeding tag will also help attract readers.
  5. Show your support for NIP on your blog with one of our many badges available here.
  6. Join our Flickr Group to add you own images of nursing in public!
  7. Promote the Carnival with your local moms. The website has a great resource on breastfeeding and the law for all US states that many mothers would benefit from.
  8. Facebook PSA's: Update your status with one of our breastfeeding "public service announcements," or create one of your own - feel free to link back to NursingFreedom.org!
Monday, July 5:  
As long as we still have people telling us to nurse babies in dirty bathrooms, we still have work to do to normalize breastfeeding. Check out NursingFreedom.org's Carnival of Nursing in Public today: it's all about transforming our culture into one that embraces breastfeeding - anywhere.

Tuesday, July 6:
Do you know a breastfeeding mother? Have you ever seen a mother breastfeeding in public? What have you ever done to support a nursing mother? Today's topic in NursingFreedom.org's Carnival of Nursing in Public is all about support. (Attach link: http://www.nursingfreedom.org/2010/07/carnip-day-2.html)

Wednesday, July 7:
If you've ever nursed in public, NursingFreedom.org wants to hear your story. Today's Carnival of Nursing in Public posts share the stories and celebrations of N.I.P. stories from across the world. Add your own story by checking out the "Contributors" tab at NursingFreedom.org. (Attach link: http://www.nursingfreedom.org/2010/07/carnip-day-3.html)

Thursday, July 8:
Ever wonder what other countries think of breastfeeding? How about other religions? Learn about both in today's incredibly informative posts at NursingFreedom.org's Carnival of Nursing in Public. (Attach link: http://www.nursingfreedom.org/2010/07/carnip-day-4.html)

Friday, July 9:
Do you know whether your state protects the rights of breastfeeding pairs? NursingFreedom.org has created an easy to read map and compiled current state statutes related to breastfeeding. Visit NursingFreedom.org to read more about your right to N.I.P., responses to those who ask you to move or cover up, and to order breastfeeding cards with your state's law printed on them. (Attach link: http://www.nursingfreedom.org/2010/07/carnip-day-5.html)

Wednesday, June 30, 2010

Carnival News and Updates

The deadline for the Carnival of Nursing in Public is right around the corner!  Next Wednesday, June 30th.  The response has been exceptional!  Let’s keep the momentum going!
Here’s some of the exciting things going on:

International Involvement

We are very excited to be partnering with Genitori Channel – an Italian parenting site.  They recently ran a photo contest for breastfeeding “In the light of the Sun” – the Italian phrase for “Nursing in Public.”  Allatta il tuo bimbo “alla luce del sole.” Isn’t that a beautiful phrase?
The Genitori Channel will be running an Italian Carnival of Nursing in Public parallel with the one here in the US.  Also, Barbara, from the Genitori Channel will be sharing her perspective with us on attitudes toward breastfeeding in Italy. Thank you Barbara!
We are also thrilled to have involvement from several Australian bloggers.  Janet Fraser pointed out that the term “nursing” is not commonly used in Australia so we created a badge with “breastfeed” in public as an alternative (see below for the badge smorgasbord).  We anticipate participation from Canada, Mexico, and Ireland!
These International voices are so exciting!  Creating a network of lactivists that spans the globe will have a huge effect on normalizing breastfeeding.  Are you a non-US blogger?  We’d love to hear from you and we’d be happy to create other-language badges to promote the right to nurse our children in public.

Meet Our Sponsors

Special thanks to Marybeth at Downside Up and Outside In for coordinating the giveaways for the Carnival.  Here are the exciting giveaways we have currently;
From Etsy seller and breastfeeding mama Leslie at Wildroot Botanicals, we have a donation of Sore Nipple Salve with Organic Lanolin, Jojoba Oil, Shea Butter, Locally sourced beeswax, Organic Coco Butter and ethically wildcrafted herbs. Wildroot Botanicals is a small family business located in the lovely Pacific Northwest. They specialize in wild harvests from the lush environment and growing medicinals out at their farm. They love working with plants and believe in the importance of small-scale and using one’s own hands to ensure quality. Products are made in small batches like our grandparents used to craft, ensuring the highest quality.
All of their creations are crafted and distilled from fresh and freshly dried botanicals. All ingredients are high quality organic, ethically wildcrafted and fair trade certified, free of artificial fragrances, chemicals or preservatives. Be sure to check out their other lovely products, such as their postpartum gift basket.
Etsy shop Innerwolfbatik, is operated by husband and wife team Micha & Shannon Rodgers. Micha learned the art of batik while following the Grateful Dead. What started out as a way to make it to the next show soon turned into a passion. Micha met Shannon and fell deeply in love, and now they have two beautiful little ones. Shannon also is a breastfeeding mama to both her 2year old and a new born, and a happy supporter of Nursing in Public. They have donated a beautiful onesie (which they can make in any size from infant to adult if you are interested in wearing your breastfeeding support in a fun and colorful way) to show off your breastfeeding pride! Winner will receive one onesie in their choice of 3-6mth or 6-9mth.
From ERGOBaby we have the donation of one new Ergo Baby Carrier. The ERGObaby Carrier is a great way to nurture your baby.The ERGObaby Carrier’s ergonomic design supports your baby’s natural seated position, the carefully researched design also supports your posture by distributing your baby’s weight between your shoulders and hips, thus allowing you to comfortably carry your baby for hours at a time. We breastfeeding Mamas love the Ergo Baby Carrier for maintaining an active lifestyle and it’s comfort while breastfeeding and babywearing. One participant will win an Ergo Baby Carrier, choice dependent upon stock available :)
Rules for entry – There are 3 ways to be entered in the drawing.  You will get one entry for each submission up to 2 drawing entries in each category (you can submit more than 2 items but you will only be entered into the drawing 2 times per category for a maximum total of 6 entries per person).  Here’s how to enter:
  1. Submit an original post – This should be a well-written, unpublished piece submitted by June 30th using the original post submission webform.
  2. Submit a NIP photo – Please submit your picture via email to CodeNameMama {at} gmail {dot} com and BabyDustDiaries {at} gmail {dot} com. You must own rights to share your pictures.
  3. Submit a Tweet – Submit your Tweet that shares a NIP tip or bit of encouragement in 140 characters or less using the Tweet submission webform. Be sure to include the #CarNIP hashtag and your Twitter ID in that 140 character count.

But I've Never Been In a Carnival!

No problem!  It is easy and you will get detailed instruction along the way.
  1. Submit your post by June 30th using the original post submission webform.
  2. You will get a confirmation email and later an email that has html code to add to your post and the date your are scheduled to post
  3. Post on your scheduled day
  4. Update your post with the final html code when you get the updated email
  5. Visit fellow participants sites and leave supporting comments

You Gotta Love That Art!

Are you loving the badges for this Carnival as much as I am?  This beautiful artwork is by Erika Hastings at Mudspice.  Erika Hastings is an artist and a stay-at-home mother with three children. She has been breastfeeding for 7 years (and still going!).  She often paints about her life, and since her life now revolves around three amazing and energetic children, that is what she paints about. Parenting is the hardest thing she has ever done and she often uses her paintings as a way of working through the never-ending issues that parenting brings up. She thinks of her paintings as VISUAL affirmations, prayers, mantras and reminders of what she wants in her life. She hangs up the art in a prominent place and allows herself to soak up the image until it becomes a part of her life.  Visit her to see her other amazing works.
Our list of available badges is growing!  If you have a special request, please let us know.  Help spread the word about a woman and baby’s right to nurse Anywhere and Anytime.
Artwork by Erika Hastings at mudspice.com
Use the following code to add the “I Breastfeed in Public” badge:

Artwork by Erika Hastings at Mudspice.comUse the following code to add the “I Nurse in Public” badge:

Use the following code to add the Italian badge:

Use the following code to add the “I Nursed in Public” badge:

Use the following code to add the “I Support Nursing in Public” badge:
If you have any questions or suggestions we’d love to hear from you!  Email us at babydustdiaries {at} gmail {dot} com and codenamemama {at} gmail {dot} com.

Carnival of Nursing in Public Call for Submissions

It seems like we can never go more than a few weeks without a mother breastfeeding her child in public making the headlines. In the last three months alone a Denver, CO mother created a stir when she nursed her newborn daughter at a Colorado Rockies game; a Tampa, FL mother was asked to nurse her toddler in private rather than in the school lobby; and a server at an Old Country Buffet in St. Paul, MN demanded that a mother cover up with a blanket while she nursed her six month old son. A recent study in the UK showed that half of all new mothers try to avoid breastfeeding in public because they feel uncomfortable.  This is clearly a hot button issue that needs discussion.
  • Have you ever been nervous to nurse or felt criticized for nursing in public?
  • Are you tired of being told that breastfeeding should be “done in private” or “covered up”?
  • Do you find it hypocritical that Victoria’s Secret can peddle sex in a push-up bra while a Playboy model admonishes breastfeeding mothers for their “overexposure”?
  • Does it pain you when mothers rush to cover their children’s eyes when they see someone breastfeeding?
  • Are you passionate about educating others about the values of breastfeeding and the right to breastfeed in public (covered or uncovered)?
If so, please join us for the Carnival of Nursing in Public. Your co-hosts for the Carnival are Dionna at Code Name: Mama and Paige at Baby Dust Diaries.
Deadline: Wednesday, June 30. Fill out the webform (see details below) and email your submission to us by 11:59 p.m. Pacific time June 30: CodeNameMama {at} gmail {dot}com and BabyDustDiaries {at} gmail {dot} com
Carnival dates: July 5-9. Before you post, we will send you an email with a little blurb in html to paste into your submission that will introduce the carnival. We will also let you know what day (between July 5-9) to publish your post. Because you can publish on more than one day, you are welcome to submit more than one original post.
How Can You Participate?
1. Original Posts: Submit an original post on a Nursing in Public topic (see below for ideas) to be posted on your blog during the week of the Carnival (July 5-9, 2010).  This should be a well-written, unpublished piece submitted by June 30th using the original post submission webform. You will receive instructions by email on when to post as well as footer information to include in your post.  We will be grouping posts by topic to debut on different days throughout the week, so you may submit multiple posts and they will be listed on different days between July 5th – 9th.
2. Submit to the NIP Slideshow: We are looking for breastfeeding pictures to share in a special slideshow. Please submit your picture via email to CodeNameMama {at} gmail {dot} com and BabyDustDiaries {at} gmail {dot} com. You must own rights to share your pictures. Feel free to submit more than one.
2. Tweeting in Public: Submit your Tweet that shares a NIP tip or bit of encouragement in 140 characters or less using the Tweet submission webform. Be sure to include the #CarNIP hashtag and your Twitter ID in that 140 character count if you want us to credit you. And please, spread the word!  Use hashtag #CarNIP to promote the carnival and share information about the rights of mothers and babies to eat in public.
3. Facebook Status Updates: During the week of the Carnival, we will share several short and sweet PSA’s about the benefits of breastfeeding and our legally protected right to nurse in public. Please share these Facebook ready PSA’s as status updates during the Carnival from July 5-9.
4. Crème de la Crème: As part of the Carnival we want to round up all the best of the best posts about Nursing in Public that are already out there. Submit a link to your favorite previously published post (by you or another blogger) using our suggestion form. The links will also be shared throughout the week of the Carnival.  You can submit multiple posts.
Post Ideas & Guidelines

You can write about any topic related to nursing in public, but here are a few ideas:
  • The problem with defining discreet
  • Your own experiences
  • What you wish you’d known/advice for new mothers
  • The right to NIP
  • The sexualization of breasts & its consequences
  • NIP as it relates to culture, societal norms, attitudes, etc.
  • NIP while traveling
  • NIP and religion
  • NIP and babywearing
  • Nursing past infancy in public
  • What family and friends can do to support mothers who are NIP
Grab the “We Are Free to N.I.P.” Badge for your site!
Art by Erika Hastings at http://mudspice.wordpress.com/
Show the world that you support a mother’s right to breastfeed whenever and wherever the need arises. Our beautiful badge/logo is a watercolor painting done by Erika Hastings, a proud breastfeeding mama of three. Please visit Erika’s virtual art gallery to see more of her amazing work.
Thanks to Janet Fraser for reminding us that some countries do not use the term “nurse” but “breastfeed” exclusively.  We have created an alternate badge!
Artwork by Erika Hastings at mudspice.com
Use the following code to add the “I Breastfeed in Public” badge:
Artwork by Erika Hastings at mudspice.com
Use the following code to add the Italian badge:
Please do: Write well. Write on topic. Write in a positive way. This Carnival is not to criticize mothers who choose to use formula or to nurse with a cover, it is to educate others about the beauty of breastfeeding whenever and wherever the need arises. Feel free to be creative within the gentle confines of the Carnival structure. If you’re feeling so inspired, you could paint a picture, organize a photo essay, or write a poem, a scholarly article, or a book review instead of a regular blog post.
Please don’t: Please don’t use profanity of the sort that might be offensive to more sensitive readers or their children. Please don’t submit irrelevant or argumentative pieces, we want this Carnival to be positive.
Editors’ rights: We reserve the right to edit your piece or suggest edits to you. We reserve the right to courteously reject any submissions that are inappropriate for the Carnival.
If you don’t have a blog: Contact us about potentially finding you a host blog to guest post. Please write your piece well in advance of the deadline in that case, so we can match you up with someone suitable. But if you really have something amazing to write, why not start your own blog? If you want advice, we find Scribbit’s free Blogging in Pink ebook to be a very helpful and down-to-earth guide, for beginners on up.
If you have questions: Please leave a comment or contact us: CodeNameMama {at} gmail {dot} and BabyDustDiaries {at} gmail {dot} com
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Remember: The purpose of this Carnival is to inform, advocate, and educate about nursing in public.  It is not to be negative about mothers who formula feed or who choose to cover up when nursing in public.  Carnivals are, of course, fun and a great way to meet like-minded bloggers, but this one can be so much more.  Getting the word out about the our right to nurse in public and about normalizing breastfeeding will make a difference in the life of mothers and children everywhere.